It is with the mind!!!!!

It is extremely powerful for a person to listen or expose him/herself to something that enhances positive change. Life is more about choice and faith, you choose what is and what is not meant for you as you live, and you strongly apply faith in the sense that everything you choose will surely come to pass. I once learned that failure is not a rejection but a direction, a guidance to what will in the end brings an everlasting joy to your soul, happiness to your heart and spirit, and an ever shining smile in your face. Faith is behaviour, the sense of strongly believing that whatever you aim for, what you need, what you press forward for, whatever you dream, your vision will come to pass without evidence. This behaviour controls your instincts, your ambitions and hence focuses your eyes to what you don’t see, to something great that have no meaning to the world when you are not there. Without faith it is impossible to please God, without faith it is impossible to achieve a thing in this world, it is impossible to set for high things, to see yourself as a hero to your own destiny. This faith is the centre between your challenges and your promise, serves as the accelerator to what you believe on. That’s the other reason why many people died before reaching their goals, they believed somehow in their failure, and their faith made sure that they fail. Faith shapes your destiny based on what you believe and hope for. It is not only to receive, but can also cost you to lose a lot if you are not careful on how you behave it. Poverty is not a rejection a direction for one to work out riches, for if you are born rich, how then can you testify that what you end up with came from your own hands and hard working. A person with a vision will let every challenge to come his/her way, will allow hard times to occur knowing that it is all not a rejection but a direction. I wanted to study medicine some time back, but I couldn’t get a space in all institutions that I applied to, I became angry, disappointed and so hopeless. But then I realized that things happened so hard in my life just to shape and direct me to where I am supposed to be, that’s the reason I have evidence that all that is happening to you now is not a rejection, nor abandonment, neither a cast down, but all is you being directed to the rail that leads to your exact destination. Don’t hate to be hated, don’t run away from hard times, and don’t sneak away from the cage of your tears, all happens to produce the best of you. The power to change your life is in you, it relies on how you behave toward your goals, toward your destination. No one on earth can push your inside in order for you to be successful, inspirations and encouragements are only there to challenge your thoughts, that by other means you can instigate change upon your priorities and begin to look on everything with an eagle’s eye.

It is also thoughtful and brilliant for one to build a good character that leads to positive faith behaviour. This is the combination of different qualities that differentiate individuals; it makes you unique and special. These suggest that you don’t need people to make you special, but naturally you have characteristics that define your uniqueness. For gold to have value and obtain its unique characteristics it has to go through fires and hard beatings, for you to be pure and desirable you have to build your reputation and character, the likes of the gold processing protocols should be applied to achieve the special and unique you. And all this leads to success and prosperity. The processes of changing your life are not on the outside but strictly inside you. Life led by a godly positive character is always essential and of great honour to the surroundings. Life is surely determined by time and time management requires a good and positive character. It surely takes a good character to move from nothing to something.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE LEADS TO POSITIVE FUTURE

The way you feel about yourself and everything around you contribute much effectively towards your destination or future. Your reactions in respect to the events occurring in your life can either fail or prosper you. Consider a simple form of attitude that most people don’t consider as a bad influence; modern companies uses private numbers to call people who applied for a certain position. Different people have different attempts on how they answer private numbers that calls them, some says “private number speak what you have to say I don’t have time”, some says “private number hallo”, some say “ I am listening”. Who do you think between the ABOVE individuals can be considered for a job if they were called by a company? That’s your question to answer, but my point is to say that don’t be intimidated by small things that can cost you an opportunity that could be a breakthrough in your life. Working and living around people requires you to be moral and true of whom you are, your behaviour influences your future in many ways. A good conversation between people can be determined by how they started their conversation, either by greetings or throwing words at each other, it is therefore good to greet even strangers. Many people got opportunities due to their well-defined interactions with different people, even those that they never knew. Every small piece of a thing that we encounter in our lives counts towards our deep fall or success. It is indeed true that a positive attitude helps you cope more easily with the daily affairs of life. It brings optimism into your life, and makes it easier to avoid worries and negative thinking. If you adopt it as a way of life, it would bring constructive changes into your life, and makes them happier, brighter and more successful. This is to say that with a positive attitude one begins to develop positive thinking that helps you expect success rather than failure, which encourages and inspires you, that helps you believe more in yourself and your abilities to make it even when in deep situations and challenges of life. This positive attitude develops optimism, the sense of believing that good things are yet to happen in the future, though not being evident now, it enables you to show self-esteem and confident even in very depressing times, hence makes you to look much for solutions instead of dwelling on problems. Your bright future begins in your attitude, build your attitude to be positive then you will cherish in your own land of possibilities. It is not as simple as A B C to build a positive attitude, but it is always a key to live a desirable life. To build your positive attitude:

ü  You have to look at the other bright side of life

ü  Choose to be happy even for no reason

ü  Have strong faith and believe in yourself and the powers within you

ü  Learn to associate with people who don’t value challenges but ways of overcoming what they encounter (bad company corrupt good character)

ü   Expose yourself to inspiring shows, readings and activities

ü  Always visualize everything that you want and not what you don’t

ü  Choose also to be optimistic and moral

ü  Have millions of reasons to smile and only one not to

ü  Learn to take responsibility and account to the outcomes of your acts

ü  More effectively, learn to forgive yourself even when it’s not your fault

ü  Have the language of success in your tongue

ü  Listen to advice and accept instruction

Nothing beats your intuition.

MASTER YOUR THOUGHTS

As different people we think different kinds of things and interact differently in relation to what we think. Thoughts are other essential attempts that can build or destroy your future. The power of concentration is extremely essential for every area of your life, it determines how you follow at work, home or any place you can be, self-improvement and mediation depends on this kind of ability. You cannot choose what to think at times, but you always have a decision to take after thinking. Mastering your thoughts helps you focus your attention on what you are doing which results in you doing a fewer mistakes or errors. It improves your ability to understand and paves your ways into faster rate of success. It is always true that meaningless thoughts, desires, and sense impressions, pass through the mind at every second of the day and night, attracting the attention, pulling it here and there, and making it almost impossible to focus the mind. The mind tends to drift to other matters when we try to focus it on a certain thought, subject, or activity. When concentration is lacking, a task that requires just a few minutes to accomplish, can take much longer. Thus mastering your thoughts helps you quiet restless thinking of your mind and increasing the ability of you making good decision at good times. This also helps you not to take a right decision, but taking a decision and making the decision right. For everything that appears in your mind requires you to choose and if you choose wrongly, then everything becomes useless, but if you choose correctly everything is worth it at the end. Mastering your thoughts does not mean you won’t think bad things, but out of the millions of bad thoughts that appear in your mind, you will be able to pick one good thought that will instigate change in your whole life, thus leading you to your desired destiny and future.

IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FALL

Don’t be afraid to get back up to try again, to love again, to live again, and to dream again. Don’t let a hard lesson harden your heart. Life’s best lessons are often learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes. There will be times when it seems like everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t. When you feel like quitting, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst, to arrive at your best. Life has knocked me down a few times, I've seen things I never want to see again, But one things for sure, I'll always get back up, I will never stay down. When we fall ten times in life, we must get back up eleven times harder and stronger not afraid to give ourselves everything we've ever wanted in life. Everything happens for a reason. Life puts you down, only so you can get back up for the better things. Live life, forgive and forget. Let go of the past. Never give up, never lose hope. Always have faith, it allows you to cope. Trying times will pass, as they always do. Just have patience; your dreams will come true. So put on a smile and live through your pain. Know it will pass and strength you will gain. A failure is not always a mistake, it may simply be the best one can do at that circumstances. The real mistake is to stop trying. No matter how hard I try, life just won’t let me get what I try. But I won’t give up. If you ever feel like giving up, remember that you will accomplish nothing by doing so. Keep it moving and never give up. There's a point in your life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up. It's realizing that you don't need certain people and the crap they bring. There is a big difference between giving up and letting go. Letting go means freeing yourself from something that is no longer serving you. It means removing toxic people and belief systems from your life so that you can make room for relationships and ideas that are conducive to your wellbeing and happiness. Giving up reduces your life. Letting go expands it. Giving up is imprisoning. Letting go is liberation. Giving up is self-defeat. Letting go is self-care. So the next time you make the decision to release something or someone that is stifling your happiness and growth, and a person has the audacity to accuse you of giving up or being weak, remind yourself of the difference. Remind yourself that you don’t need anyone’s permission or approval to live your life in the way that feels right. No one has the authority to tell you who to be or how to live. No matter how much we want things to stay the same, life is all about change. Sometimes change is for the better, and sometimes it’s not. I am letting go of Negative issues in my life and moving forward to a more positive existence. Too bad I had to learn that the hard way but I’m stronger and moving forward to being a real man I always wanted to be. It is hard to let go, but it's even harder to try to hang on with hopes that it will change. You lose focus on what's important and it can take over and control your mind and your life. Not healthy. Must let go and look ahead to a better tomorrow. Sometimes it's very hard to move on, but once you move on, you'll realize it was the best decision you've ever made. It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on. To help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and move on. If someone won’t lift a finger to call you, see you, and spend time with you, it’s time for you to lift five fingers and wave goodbye......