Several events of life are only there to prepare you for the next event or stage. Life is measured by seasons and times, not all seasons will be winter, neither all times will be joyful times. Yes the preacher said it right in Ecclesiastes chapter 3, and indeed sometimes life drives you crazy in tears, but that will never last forever; you will have your time in which joy will overflow in your heart like a river flooded by rain. Accordingly, if life indeed is measured by time, then time waste should be considered time abuse, meaning that most of the events of life are controlled by he who lives, the one whom the gift of life has been given to, the same is responsible for the outcomes......all people wasting their own time should be arrested for that crime!!!!!